Echoes of the Willow

By Michelle Allen

Michelle Allen is a community storyteller dedicated to preserving the history and charm of Hesperia. Follow along at www.echoesofthewillow.com for more inspiring local stories.

We spend so much of life questioning—reworking memories, renegotiating truths, wondering who we are on the other side of change.

Grief has a way of pulling the rug out from under everything you thought you knew. What once felt solid now wobbles. What once felt permanent now dissolves. And yet—amid all the shifting—some truths remain.

Some truths arrive like thunder—loud, sudden, unforgettable. Others come like the breeze through willow branches: quiet but steady, whispering to us over time until we realize they’ve always been part of us.

But in the quiet, when everything else slips away, some things stand firm. Small truths. Sacred certainties. Anchors in the soft soil of becoming.

This week, I found myself sketching out a list—not of to-dos or tasks, but of things I know to be absolutely certain. It’s a grounding practice, and I invite you to try it too. Here’s what poured out of me beneath the hush of morning light:

🌿 10 Things I Know to Be Absolutely Certain

1. Love doesn’t end. It changes shape, but it never disappears. It lingers in stories, places, gestures, and memory.
2. Grief is proof of love. We don’t ache for what didn’t matter. The heaviness is sacred.
3. Roots matter. Where we come from—the names, traditions, recipes, and soil—is part of who we become.
4. Stories heal. Whether whispered through poetry or spoken across generations, they stitch hearts back together.
5. You can start over at any age. Renewal isn’t reserved for youth—it lives in second chances and brave re-beginnings.
6. Kindness reverberates. A quiet act of compassion has a ripple effect we may never fully see—but it matters.
7. Stillness holds truth. In silence, the soul speaks. In pauses, clarity arrives.
8. You are allowed to change. Transformation is not betrayal—it’s becoming.
9. Your pace is holy. The world may rush, but healing, dreaming, and becoming all honor their own rhythm.
10. There’s always more light. Even in the darkest moments, something within glows—a flicker of faith, a memory, a hand held out.

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🫖 What do you know for sure? What truths have held you steady or pulled you forward?

Leave a comment, drop me a note, or reflect on your own 10 certainties. I’d love to hear what stirs in you.

Until next time, Michelle 🌳