By Michelle Allen
Michelle Allen is a community storyteller dedicated to preserving the history and charm of Hesperia. Learn more at www.echoesofthewillow.com
We don’t always ask this out loud, do we? “What are you most worried about for the future?” It’s the kind of question that hovers in the quiet spaces—on back porches at dusk, between coffee sips at the diner, in the silence between generations; the kind of question that hangs in porch-light silence or the hush after coffee cups clink—felt more than spoken.
For me, it’s not just one thing. It’s a mosaic of small, persistent wonders and worries–quiet worries that gather like clouds on a Michigan afternoon.
I worry about the slow erosion of local memory. About what happens when the stories of our elders aren’t passed down, and the names carved into barn beams fade without anyone to trace them. I worry that in our rush toward the next new thing, we forget the beauty of the old—of knowing your neighbor’s dog’s name or who used to run the hardware store. I worry about stories going unwritten. About quilts, their histories, and front porches, their passersby. I worry that the rush to be “modern” might leave the richness of the past behind.
I worry about the land—how much we can take before it forgets how to give. I worry about nature being pushed too far to bounce back. That someday the wind won’t carry the same scent of pine or that children won’t know the thrill of spotting fireflies in tall summer grass, nor ever know the deep hush of woods untouched. That “wilderness” becomes a word for places we used to have.
And I worry about disconnection. I worry we’ll forget each other. That screens might outshine eye contact, or that the shorthand of emojis and scrolling will replace slow, intentional conversation. That we might forget how to listen. That scrolling might replace storytelling. That voices will be lost in noise. That our differences will be louder than our shared roots.
But maybe worry is just another form of care. It’s love in disguise. Because under each anxiety lies something precious we don’t want to lose. We fear losing only what matters most.
In my small corner of the world—in Hesperia—I see glimmers of something different: kids who still ride their bikes to the library, families who wave from porches, neighbors checking in “just because,” and elders whose memories are books waiting to be opened. And that gives me hope. Hope that maybe if we keep telling our stories, if we name what we love out loud, we’ll protect it more fiercely.
So I’ll keep writing. I’ll keep planting words like seeds, believing they’ll bloom into something lasting. And I’ll keep asking this question—not to dwell in worry, but to wake up our will to shape the future with tenderness. So I write. To remember. To resist forgetting. To make space for voices that shaped this town—and the hearts that still carry its rhythm.
And I want to hear from you. If there’s a story in your family that deserves to be told—if your grandma’s hands taught you courage, or your father built something worth remembering—I want to help tell it. Message me at allenmic6482@yahoo.com and let’s shine a light on the past that shaped our present.
Because in sharing, we preserve. And in preserving, we protect.
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