Time, the Gentle Thief
By Michelle Allen
Michelle Allen is a community storyteller dedicated to preserving the history and charm of Hesperia. Follow along at www.echoesofthewillow.com for more inspiring local stories.
Some days, time feels like a wide-open meadow—space to write, to wander, to follow every poetic thread. Other days, it’s slippery as river moss. I sit down to write, dive into ancestry records, trace someone’s name through generations… and suddenly, the sun has shifted across the room and the coffee’s gone cold.
There are moments when time, grief, and even memory loosen their grip—just enough for us to breathe a little deeper.
For me, those moments often happen when I’m scribbling poetry with no clock in sight, or when I’m knee-deep in family history, chasing clues about a great-great aunt whose name was stitched into a quilt. I look up hours later and wonder where the day went. The ache quiets. The noise fades. And something unspoken inside me feels… whole.
Writing my book, crafting poems, chasing roots—it’s when I lose myself in something deeper. Not escapism. Just embodiment. Like I’m less observing time, and more floating inside it.
I don’t mind losing hours to meaning. But I do wish time would stay a little longer when the words are finally flowing.
These are the sacred drifts. The things that make us lose track of time.
🧵 Why It Matters
Losing track of time isn’t about distraction. It’s about connection. About tapping into a space where being ourselves doesn’t require explanation.
For some, it’s gardening until dusk. For others, it’s dancing in the living room to a song they forgot they loved. For many widows I’ve met, it’s creating something new out of the broken pieces: art, story, ritual.
🌸 What Makes You Vanish (in the Best Way)
Here are a few activities that do it for me:
- Writing without a plan—just letting the words lead
- Genealogy research that turns into time travel
- Talking to my plants like they’re old friends
- Creating playlists that sound like memories I forgot to feel
- Designing graphics that speak before I do
They aren’t flashy. They’re grounding.
And they whisper back: You’re still here. You’re still you.
✍🏼 Which activities make you lose track of time—and why do you think they feel like home?
Write about a moment when you got completely lost in something gentle, joyful, or healing. What were you doing? What did that moment give back to you?
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